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Tuesday, March 30, 2010

"Luck Of The Draw!"

Yes, it's really just that simple.

People go their whole life questioning the circumstances in which they find themselves. Asking why me this,why me that.

It's simple it's the way it's suppose to be for you,it's "The Luck Of The Draw!"

I'm a firm believer in many things, but realize all things aren't for all people.

Even common sense issues,some people's senses aren't common.We all march to our own drummer and string section in a tune made just for us. You keep that beat just  for you. While somethings are universal....

1)  "All things happen for a reason."

2) "God doesn't put more on you than you can handle."

3) "If it doesn't kill you,it will make you stronger."

4) "If it causes any pain or discomfort,remove it,amputate it, just get rid of it."

5) "Whatever will be.will be."

Sometimes people get caught up in things.

Wondering why some people have so much and others so little. It's mind blowing,but not  really if you put it in perspective.

You know sometimes we look at the wrong things and ignore the obvious.

Example:  Joe Jackson wanted the best for his children. He raised them with a dynamic work ethic and with the knowledge that they were going to be the best, they did.But exactly at what price?

Example:  You're envious of a woman because she has a nicer home than yours,nicer clothes than yours,you think that because she's driving a nice new car she's got it going on. While behind closed doors she's suffering from some unimaginable goings on in her life that maybe you could not handle.

Example: You're envious of a man because he has a fine wife,fine home and fine children.While behind closed doors,he's stressing,his wife is nagging and his kids are off the chain terrible.Not to mention the economy,his job and health issues.

So the next time you think the grass is greener for someone else,also think about how blessed you are.

Be happy God's given you sight,hearing,movement and a powerful mind.

But most of all...............LIFE!!!!!

Stay Blessed People!!

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

"What's Really Real?"

Everyone says they are real or keeping it real,but what is real for you may not be real for another.

Everyone's view or opinion will still vary depending on many contributing factors. A person's demographic and geographic elements play a vital part in one's outlook.Also adding in one's home life and upbringing all determine a person's perception of life and situations.

Different perceptions of the same situation are sometimes amazing but also scary. You would be dumbfounded of how many different reactions you can receive from the same action  from different people.
Everyone is going to see the action differently, based on their own perception,own life experiences,individual perferences and personality.

Thus being said you have to learn to agree to disagree, and also know subjects never to go overboard on,like church,politics and somone's children or family.

Many  friendships and relationships has been lost over such  subjects.

Sometimes people even attack those subjects just to be rid that person all together. Maybe this person or issue always causes drama. Whenever this person or issue comes up it's problems and the person or issue only gets worse.more draining,and more dramatic. Common sense tells you to leave it alone,to stay away,get away and leave it be.But because we are compassionate by nature we want to help,and sometimes that's the downfall.

Sometimes it doesn't pay to be nice, people take your kindness for weakness. Or just think you are stupid and that they mean more to you than yourself.  Silly,silly people no one is more important to me than me.
I have paid friends rent,paid friends car notes,bought friends groceries,taken friends on trips,paid for hotel rooms,etc.Only to be told I'm not a friend or I don't know what friendship really is. Wow,it's funny what people will say when they find out you will no longer allow them to use you,or even be in your presence.

What's funnier is that my Real Friends have never asked me for a dime or even taken it when offered,and if you know me you know I offer alot.

This was a life lesson well learned and earned.

If someone's friendship changes with health or wealth it isn't a friendship at all.

That's what's really real!!

Sunday, March 14, 2010

"Forever Humble"

I will be forever humble all the days of my life,for God has blessed me with vision.

I will be forever humble all the days of my life,for God has blessed me with

I will forever be humble all the days of my life,for God has blessed me with

I can feel His love,I can see His love,I can sing of His love!

I am forever humble for God is love and I know Him!!

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

"Meditate To Elevate!"

Meditate to elevate.

Yes, this is very essential coming into the realm of self-awareness.

Meditation is a very helpful tool that can be used with very good results. But as with any skill you must practice as much as possible.

Breathing and meditation go hand in hand, and when used together and mastered the results are amazing.

You can use this skill in many areas of life and they will prove very benefical.

I meditate often during the day anytime I have a free 20+ minutes, I meditate. It's gonna take practice to build up your time but 5 minutes to start is good.

For energy:

You are going to clear your mind of everything. Breathe deeply, in thru your nose and out thru your mouth.

Now think back to when you were a child,all the energy you had you could run and play all day and never get tired. Wow that felt good,just running and playing free, full of energy.Laughing,running,jumping having fun,full of energy. Focus on that visual,breathe,focus how healthy you felt back then,how you loved to run,focus on the energy.

Carry this with you during the day.

When you feel a little run down or growing alittle weary.

Find yourself a little quiet spot and take 5-10 minutes out to do you.

Meditate to elevate!

"Visualize Your Happiness!"

"If you see it you can achieve it!!

a compass was there to get you thinking

To get you thinking and moving in the right direction!!

Visualize all that you want out of life,then claim it!!

Start making the correct steps toward what you want.

And please believe all wants and needs are not material things.

Some people just want everyone to be happy,everyone to feel joy and everyone to life out their dreams!